06-08-2019 06:15 PM
06-08-2019 06:15 PM
@Zoe7 Haya Zoey, thanks for nice message. Hope you will have a nice evening. Just had dinner, just watching tv here.
06-08-2019 06:27 PM
06-08-2019 06:27 PM
Going to organise dinner here for myself after relax a bit longer @Meowmy Just got home from psych appointment and need to sit for a while. It wasn't an overly difficult session but feeling pretty drained after work then appointment. Hope you evening is calm and peaceful Hon
06-08-2019 06:35 PM
06-08-2019 06:42 PM
06-08-2019 06:42 PM
Hi @Bunniekins I think we should be charging people $$ to rant at us (to listen).
I'm a good listener, so people often assume that I want to listen to them - when they're not listening to a single word that I say (in return).
The house cleaning guy (had him for the 1st time) did exactly that - he talked non-stop (at me, not to me) for the entire 2 hours.
When I told hime that I was utterly exhausted, & needed to rest (couldn't listen) - he just went on talking anyway...
Adge
06-08-2019 06:44 PM
06-08-2019 06:44 PM
@Adge Hey Adge hope you are having a good evening. I am okay . Just watching tv.lol. Take care.
06-08-2019 06:46 PM
06-08-2019 06:46 PM
@Bunniekins Hey. Beautiful pea, hope son2 gets to rest soon. And you can get some free time to relax and enjoy. I am just watching tv , not up to much.lol. Take care.
06-08-2019 06:48 PM
06-08-2019 06:48 PM
@Zoe7 Thanks for kind message. Hope your dinner will be nice. I am just watching tv, not up to much.lol. Take care.
06-08-2019 06:49 PM
06-08-2019 06:49 PM
@Adge Hehe! I kind of dont mind people spending hours talking about themselves as I hate talking about myself. You can always come online and talk with the pea Adge I will always lend you a friendly ear :)xx
06-08-2019 06:51 PM
06-08-2019 06:51 PM
Hi @Meowmy How are you?
Still no EMDR, psych keeps putting it off (won't do it with me yet).
She says I have so much trauma (suppressed memories) - that she's worried that too much might come up if (when) we finally do EMDR sessions.
She did say that I've come a long way (grown a lot), & that I'm very stable.
Adge
06-08-2019 06:55 PM
06-08-2019 06:55 PM
Thanks @Bunniekins I thought you said your son was ranting at you - that doesn't sound fun (to listen to).
That sounds exhausting.
I use a lot of energy when I listen well (it is exhausting) - so I would like to be listening willingly (not forced to).
Adge
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