When things get tough here on the Forums

[Appleblossom]

My wariness increased ..  Oh to have a simple life as a single person and only worry about my own rights and pride. My situation has been so complex I realise it takes patience to understand. I cant just complain about having a diagnosis or being a carer it was all interconnected.

[PeppiPatty]

My darling friend @Appleblossom it isn't about praise ..... I agree
We that is you and me have a history ....... We both know about each other ........
I have been critical of you at times so no .... I do not only praise you at all but am Always ..... Mindful of how you have survived.
Now back to me ....
Can I say ..... I survive like you. I dunno. I woke up this morning to be faced with my darling next door neighbour begging and what a stalker I had over a year ago showing evidence he visited me when I was away. He's written something awful on top of my outside door screen.
So back to my hub. And pick up some stuff to clean it.
It never stops.
Sure @Appleblossom go and be solitary.
Ille do it too in my state of Australia. Get back in that spot for you ...... Oblivion .....
Ille just shut the door break my marriage up and watch Rv all day (bliss for me)
We better stop Sane Forums too.

[Fancy_Pants]

Hi All,

Please excuse the fact that I am not completely on top of all the messages as im not always on here and things seem to move between threads,

but what I have noticed is that an air of uncertainty and lack of safety seems to be felt amoungst a number of members which is the opposite of what everyone wants.

Although you personally may not be happy right now with things that have been said or "liked", this forum remains a haven for many that dont have other supports and connections, its a precious and needed space  

therefore please be respectful and lets agree to disagree where needed 

[PeppiPatty]

Dear @Fancy_Pants

Thankyou for this message. 

What we keep on avioding though is that it's the end of the year......

I know Im tired and feeeling the effects of other things happening in my life. 

Me and @Appleblossom......lol.....we have this relationship where we can often support and give each other support as well.

Im feeling my stomach contracting...feeling ill. When I woke up this morning, my neighbour came over begging and this awful writing in front of my outside door. Its so great that I can write to @Appleblossom about it........

Im so thankful for this. 

It is the end of the year isn't it. When all this...uncertainty comes up about lonliness and fear. I'm scared that my youngest son is'nt going to want to see me for Christmas......

I cant work because my husband needs me but ooohhh.....I'lle be sad if he decides to do something else. 

.I've been looking around at other forums....this is thriving on our forums. You modertors do a great job and well......so do we......xxx

[Appleblossom]

Yes this is a good forum @PeppiPatty and @Fancy_Pants... I am not familiar with all the others ... but I wont leave because of this... just back off a bit ... I have been keeping posts short but I really did not want to leave anybody hanging ... and I had the spare time so I kept an eye out for newbies .. but lots of other forumites are coming up to the coal plate and I am sure this forum will continue to thrive .. its just a personal hiccup for me.

@PeppiPatty I am sorry that damn stalker hasnt given up yet ... I guess that is the problem with women living alone ... I try bad hair days to scare off problem people ... I must be scarier than you.

It has taken me a long time to adjust to christmas without family ... it want easy ... prepare yourself for whatever happens ... with dignity.  Its less of a thing these days anyway ... many people avoid christmas and we are not solely a christian society any more .. so it makes sense that we dont take it as completely personal ... it is a social change too.

If you give up job opportunities and your hub then drops you ... I would be tempted to give him an uncomfortable spanking ... not a thrilling one ... that is why I think it important you take some time anyway ... he will be fine ... he has a horde of others looking out for him ... do that cert 4 ... hook into the craft scene

[PeppiPatty]

YOur so good you....

Thank you...I went to the police today and reported. It's been recorded. The policeman was SO Kind. He met me and hub. and he said that he used to work in MI before he became a policeman and then....of course.... sat there and congradulated the hub. for giving up all bad illegal substances....

But he listened and he was compassionate.

 @kristin and @Alexanndra1992 supported me when he started. I thought that he finished but not. When it started I kept on forgetting how much stress it gave me....iand forgot what was happening and they stayed on me ...

Now....really weird...I am so feeling the stress. I My tummy really hurts. I get headaches and I feel nausaous. 

[Appleblossom]

Its awful that someone targets you like he does ... you probably didnt notice the feelings so much while you were in action mode... breathe into them.

I hate the feeling of being burgled as a violation .. but this would be worse.

Not all police are hardnosed ... glad you got a good one. I tried hard for my son to have a good opinion of the law .. so that he would stay on the right side of it

[CannonSalt]

I recently had one of my posts 'hidden' because it was unintentionally skirting some of the community guidelines. I wasn't able to edit it in a timely fashion because I was staying with a friend and managed a post or two from my shoe phone. I think it's quite possible for me to rewrite some parts of my post to reinstate it, but I can't find where to go to find my 'hidden' post.

Does anyone know where to go? I've clicked on my username and on the speech balloon under "My Items Awaiting Moderation", but I can't find my post in either of the tabs. 😞

[Appleblossom]

Maybe when you have good internet access you can email the mods and they will be able to tell you where it is. It is probably just a technical issue, about where it has been "filed" as opposed to anything else.

Glad to see you around. @CannonSalt

[MoonGal]

@CannonSalt - I received an email from the moderators on 4/2/16 from @NikNik in regards editing my post on the thread you started. In that I recall they said that if the post wasn't editied "in time' they would make it unpublished and you need to email them to access. You may have received an email then, titled maybe "Hi There" on the same date of just before or after? I hope you can retrieve it because it was an excellent post and I would love to see it returned to the forum. ALl the best and thanks for being upfront about the issues we were discussing.