One Day at a time here

[Jynx]

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@Shaz51 wrote:

😂😂 @Jynx 

Mr shaz was a total wreck after Mowing and whipper-snipping the lawn yesterday in the heat which did not help last night 

Is it wrong for me feeling like I love being at home 

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We're creatures of comfort Shaz!! And 'home' is a NEED - it's in Maslows Hierarchy!! I think it could be worth having a lil reflect about like... do you feel like you need to get out more because you're supposed to or because you're craving it? 

[Shaz51]

Mostly because I am supposed too 

Getting out more is mostly Mr shaz's idea at the moment @Jynx 

Even though he doesn't want to

Soo today I  am bypassing the remark 

[Jynx]

Mr Shaz struggling a bit with his sense of identity and purpose post-retirement maybe @Shaz51? I think it's totally okay to become a lil home-body in retirement! Like... if not now, when?! 

Glad you bypassed it!! Listening to your needs can be hard when part of your needs is also to be open and supportive to your partner!! 

So, chill arvo ahead for ya?

[Shaz51]

I think you are right there my @Jynx 😊

Soo I need to not take things said to heart and to think it is me 

Back to being me 😁

[Jynx]

@Shaz51 for sure, and it can be tricky not to take it to heart - perhaps also reminding yourself that this is still probably part of the adjustment period in one of life's greatest milestones!! It is bound to impact everyone differently. I'm sure you and Mr Shaz will find your 'new normal' soon 😊

[Shaz51]

Morning my sister @Healandlove 😊

How are you going 

Thinking 🤔 of you ❤️

[Shaz51]

@BlueBay 

This is my new thread  😊

[Shaz51]

@rav3n , @tyme , @Jynx 

My cousin lives in the same town as me and have not been invited to her place for Christmas day 

My other cousin ( her sister) is travelling up and asked if we will be there for lunch Christmas day 

I feel like texting her and telling her that we were not invited

Half of me wants to while the other part of me said leave it alone 

[Jynx]

What are the potential outcomes @Shaz51? Would leaving it alone potentially avoid an altercation? What about the cousin who didn't invite you, would you want to have been invited?

[Shaz51]

@Jynx , I think leaving it alone is the best :ok_hand:

 Mr shaz is glad we are not invited and he would not go anyway even if we were invited