not feeling good

[Former-Member]

Hi @BlueBay 

Very sensible to get an all over general checkup.  Annual screening blood tests are the norm these days.

Coffee out with D and A sounds good.  As does the prospect of going home to nice clean windows at home.  Good on hubby!

I wish you a lovely day too my friend.

Sherry 

[BlueBay]

I’m feeling terrible   Headache. Can’t be bothered to do anything. Throbbing pain 

just feel I need a good cry but can’t at home. 

@Former-Member  How are you my friend? 

[Former-Member]

Ouch @BlueBay  that headache sounds bad.  Pain knocks the stuffing out of us, it really does.

Its also difficult when we dont have somewhere we can just 'be' somewhere to let our emotions out ... be it crying, yelling, or whatever else.  Its never good to keep strong emotions inside us.  Perhaps a walk somewhere fairly quiet may help? I know the headache may prevent you doing a brisk walk, but a gentle walk may help.  I wish you had a room you could close the door and just be by yourself on occasion.  I think everyone needs that, especially when its a 'full house' such as you have with daughter and A.  Perhaps a punching bag hung up in your garage or something like that could be a good outlet for you?  Is that possible?

I'm okay thanks @BlueBay .  Heading out shortly to an appointment for hubby.  Didnt make it to my pilates class yesterday unfortunately.  But hoping to get to my volunteer role tomorrow, provided hubby is well enough to leave on his own for an hour or so.  

Sherry 🧡

[BlueBay]

It’s a shame that you missed out on Pilates but hoping you can get to your volunteer job tomorrow @Former-Member 

I’m so angry because hubby is home. And it really affects my routine. He is just sitting around hugging and puffing. 

Some bills came today and they were overdue. So he’s complaining that they are overdue. But if we don’t hsve the money to pay them there’s not much I can do. 

Sometimes I wish I was on my own. 

No one telling me what to do or complaining or whinging. 

Im sorry you have so much on your plate and I’m carrying on. 

I should just go. 

[BlueBay]

Any minute now I’m going to lose it 

I’ve had enough 

[Zoe7]

@BlueBay  Hey BB - try to stay calm and write what is going on 

[BlueBay]

Hi @Zoe7  im not feeling great eith a headache and I think I’m coming down with a cold. 

But hubby has a stupid comment for everything. 

I think my patience is very thin

im emotional I want to cry but can’t st home 

I think I need to have an early night 

tonight

Im venting 

tomorrow he is going bsvk to work

at least I’ll have tomorrow to myself 

[Zoe7]

An early night might be good if you are feeling like you are coming down with a cold @BlueBay It is great that you have tomorrow to yourself. DId you get everything done today that you planned?

[BlueBay]

@Zoe7 

I saw my doctor and then an optometrist appt. my blood pressure still a bit high. Having blood tests tomorrow for tingling in my arm and fingers. He’s not sure what it is. 

Timorriw im seeing my Chiro. He’ll be able to help with the headaches.  Then grocery shopping. 

[Zoe7]

Good that you may be able to get some relief from the headaches @BlueBay That will be good to get on top of. I need to do some grocery shopping tomorrow too - fridge is pretty bare right now - need to stock up on food for Cat as well - have enough for Toby for a few, more weeks yet - bought that in bulk last month.

It will be good to get those tests done even if it is just to rule out things. It could very well be stressed related but is good that you gp is doing tests to see if there is another reason.